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2019

Lake Worth, Florida

Emotional Flashback

Wishing for a new story and holding on to God’s Promises ♥️

2019 - Lake Worth, Florida

Here’s to wishing for new stories as we make peace with our past, appreciating the good with the bad and holding on to God’s Promises as we go through another season. ♥️

I was reminded of another year long period of drastic change today ... A big shift in the soul from feelings of love and connection to those of sorrow and isolation.

Remember when 2012 was supposed to be the end of the world? At least John Cusack and Woody Harrelson thought so but in all actuality it was just a period of change. The world did not "end". It just changed.

As long as we are looking back, we can’t see what’s in front of us. When we respect these seasons, we can see what God is showing us whether it be something new, something neglected or even better, the clarity to see the world and each other as only HE can see ... beautifully broken and beautifully mendable with Him that lives in us.

Getting through 2020 (as I'm just now getting around to writing this) will be one day at a time much like 2012 was for me but the lack of human contact is unbearable some days. All the Zoom, Skype, social media and phone calls can never replace a good ‘ol hug from the ones you love most ... Thus, why I’m sharing this. I know I’m not alone in this feeling of estrangement to one’s self but although in feeling “stuck” with one’s self, there’s also opportunity to “clean out the closet” or “heal one’s old wounds” so to speak without the clutter of many voices.

However, If you are actually fortunate enough to be living with the ones you love most, be so very grateful during this season. They might even annoy you some days but hey, you're still getting human contact! As for the rest of us, I encourage you to draw nearer to Him that made us.

So ... On to the story

Flashback to 2012, just before my job had relocated from Dallas, Texas to Jacksonville, Florida ... I remember sitting with my daughter and we were making wishes in a field of dandelions as I tried to explain what was going on the best I knew how and that I would have to go away for a little while.

Coincidently, I was in that same field today.

That little while ended up being way longer than we hoped for. With that came several years of dissapointments and heartache. However, IT WAS THIS FACE I had on my phone, that kept me moving though those days, months and years and the promise kept. When I got knocked down, I would remember this moment in the dandelion field fondly and somehow was able to get back on my feet again and then again and once more again.

The key to keeping sanity during that time was to stay present. It was a tough lesson but one this nostalgic soul needed to write down as this isn't a headspace I'd like to return to.

CELEBRATING WITH WHAT WE DO HAVE ... The annual Street Painting Festival has almost always brought a feeling of respite just about every year. This particular year (2019) my old friend Jew got to help me with a documentary on the event that I've wanted to do for a very long time now AND my OLDER brother came to visit for the very first time. It was special. It was less about the art and just appreciating the moment with loved ones. As you can see, I didn't even finish it before the rain.

If I haven’t mentioned before, most Street Paintings are a celebration (for me) of the previous year, whether it was loss or gain, my own little "New Year's" celebration albeit in February. My time for some "me time" to reflect.

The second half of 2018 brought some serious health issues and a whole lotta "W.O.W." moments. This was probably the first time in my life where I actually felt very vulnerable / mortal.

When your kids are little, they look at you like you're 10 feet tall and will live forever ... so much I think we ACTUALLY start to believe it ourselves! That’s the power of love, dude ... a reminder that although we REALLY ARE ETERNAL we have but only a few precious moments here on earth before exiting to the eternal.

We should live all our days as if they were our last and with INTENT.

If 2020 hasn’t reiterated that within myself, I’m not sure what will. TRUST IN HIM WHO HAS IT ALL IN HIS HANDS. The end of this story has already been written and the good news is:

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."
Romans 8:28

OH, AND BY THE WAY:

Don't get me wrong, 2018 was a great year! I know a lot of what I just wrote sounds pretty somber, however some of my most favorite memories were born out of 2018's shared journey with someone very dear to me. A journey of acceptance, forgiveness in others and ourselves and a real shared LOVE for what was right in front of our faces and treating each new day as a brand new one ... a gift.

Also to note ... Funny how that even when you get everything you ever prayed and hoped for but you have gotten so used to struggle, hardships and abandonment that you end up blind to these precious moments of REAL CHANGE and CONNECTION until the opportunity has passed.

Our PRESENT lives are truly a reflection of what and how we see ourselves. Sometimes we're the hero in in other's stories and sometimes we're the villin. That's what makes us human. The faster you forgive someone AND yourself, you can appreciate all the good that is right in front of you and KEEP MOVING. Storms will come and storms will pass. BE PRESENT. There’s magic there. I saw it with my own two eyes!!!

Although 2019 only brought even more storms and heartbreak with the passing of my little brother and many regrets of not calling him to share with him all my thoughts I just wrote above, not to mention everyone knows how 2020 is going in our collective minds ...

Even though there won’t be a Street Painting respite this coming 2021, here’s hoping / praying there will be something brand new and just as rewarding and God willing, we'll do it together.

HOLD ON TO YOUR SOUL, LET GO AND LET GOD!